This is a more relevant chatting thread than the one I posted prior.

What kind of dialog do you enjoy hearing between a dom and sub? Feel free to describe scenarios but the main theme of the thread is the "wordplay" itself. Don't be shy. It might even be worth more than you think to mention your favorite phrases!

Two words:

"Good girl"

Mainly honorifics. "Master", "Goshujin-sama", stuff like that.
In addition, the polar opposite: "Slave" and such.

A few other words when said by the sub referring to HERself (in my case. always a her): "Obedient", "subservient", "anything" (as in, 'I'll do anything'), etc.

And recently, due to my massive habit of playing Japanese Eroges, "Daisuki" ('I love you', or something akin to that, in Japanese), has recently become a decent turn-on at times. I feel that it's likely due to the enthusiasm with which it is usually said, though, rather than the words themselves.

I guess, as you can tell from my word choice, I'm into the psychological side of sub/dom stuff.

Vanndrill couldn't have said it better.

I also like self-humiliation when the sub refers to herself, such as "please use this unworthy fucktoy" and things like that.

Oh, and one more thing. I like machistic, sexist dialog, such as "woman are meant to be used", and things that refer to her as dumb and inferior.

I love anything suggesting mindlessness. "Blank," "empty," "hollow," etc.

Combine these two, where the female sub is saying such things, then add hypnosis, and you get the ultimate psychological control, potentially without losing any of the personality of the sub. Obviously, I'm all for women's rights, but as a control fetishist through and through, I can't help but realize how amazingly hot it would be to know a girl who honestly believed that and was more than just willing, but eager, to be used by me. It would be like guilt-free slavery with all parties happy. Completely win-win.

It's no wonder the machismo, sexist archetypes are so hard for previously patriarchal societies to drop.



I sometimes enjoy offshoots of this sort of thing. For example, if a sub's mind were portrayed as completely empty EXCEPT for the dominant's words or thoughts of serving the dominant.

I certainly agree with that. To a certain extent, I made my girlfriend like that, and we roleplay about it a lot.
And I'm not sure I should reveal this, but I made her like being punished for doing something wrong in a time when I liked that more, and now she sometimes wants me to strangle her a bit and the like, it's hot once in a while.


Maybe we can get them on the rise again? lol.

But seriously, regarding women's rights, I'm all for *people's* rights, but IMHO when feminists start talking about privileges granted just for women, they should just STFU and go straight back to the kithcen with a slap in the butt.

[/rant]

Let's all calm down before we chase off every female in this fetish, okay?

Back to the topic.

Sorry, I got a bit carried away :D

A little more than just two words this time.



Those are good ones for me, as well.

While I *sometimes* enjoy hearing the sub say self-humiliating things, I can only take it in moderation. I generally prefer much more lighthearted interactions. I particularly like it when the sub expresses devotion to the dom. I also love it when doms give subs "rewards" for being obedient (things like instant orgasms).

I also enjoy it when a sub refers to herself in the third person. I don't know why, I just think it's cute. Or maybe it's that it makes it seem like she's unable to think of herself as *being* herself.